The Blame Game

  • I am assuming that all the people criticizing the parents (whose child was ripped away from them by an alligator they never saw coming, who they watched leave them never to come back as they fought desperately to hold on)…I am assuming these criticizers never took their children swimming (or wading) in the ocean where with or without signs we know there are sharks in great quantities.

 

  • Wondering why Christianity is such a big deal to those who don’t agree with it.  Why are you so desperate to throw Jesus out of everything, to get rid of God from a country built on His laws?  Fear is the only answer to that question.  What are you afraid of?

 

  •  Why is it that the president felt it so desperate to leave his family vacation to talk to the country (or scold us…tsk tsk) about “global warming” but wouldn’t leave a baseball game when terrorists attacked Brussels?

 

  • Why are most people still convinced that guns are the enemy instead of the people shooting them?  And why are they convinced that if we ban them the people who shouldn’t have them now, will suddenly not be able to get ahold of them when more laws are put in place…and the ones who are safe with them will be left defenseless?

 

I don’t know what these questions spark in you, but in me it seems like we all (yes I include myself, even if not on these specific issues) are desperate to find someone to blame for every tragedy, accident, or uncool thing that happens in our lives.  Let’s start to look at ourselves before looking at another.  Let’s have some personal responsibility for what we do or say.  Let’s start thinking before adding to drama or trauma.  Let’s put blame where it is due…because yes, if a mass shooting occurs we should blame the shooter, but if a lightning bolt strikes a man on a golf course 3 states away from where his parents live, we should not blame the parents for raising him to get hit by lightning.  And let’s turn to a God who loves us instead of running away from Him.  If that’s not your kind of thing, give it a shot, just for a day…take all your problems to God.  Let’s band together and really know what we are fighting for or against, and who is with us and who is against us.

 

 

 

12.28.12

She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.

Matthew 1:21

 

This year has been a difficult Christmas for so many…with big or little disappointments or even tragedies.  It wasn’t very long ago when my husband and I were going through a dark Christmas with the loss of our Joshua.  Something to keep focused on and to hold dear is that Christmas is Jesus coming to earth from pure perfection for the sole purpose of saving us.  Trust Him.  Believe in Him.  Accept His gift of forgiveness.  Repent and give yourself to Him.  He is all that any of us will ever need.  

Kitchen House

The Kitchen House, by Kathleen Grissom, is a book of tragedy.  It is a fiction piece, that could easily be reality in the given era.  It tells of slavery of many kinds.  Though it is so sad, and most of the time hope does not prevail, you see hope in the little things.  You believe in the friendships and family, the looking out for one another and obedience.  I suppose it ends on a good note, but so much bad happened to every character, it is not an easy statement to make.  However, those left at the end were survivors, were free and had the knowledge of unconditional love from their fellow survivors.  That is no small thing in which to hope.

I flew through this book and was quite impressed with it.  So much was left unfinished at the end, I wonder…will there be a sequel?